Game of Requests
In this session, you can go where-ever your desire instinctively takes you, in your erotic game. You get to ask Steve to do and say things you want, throughout the session as the mood takes you. Say what you want him to do, see, feel, smell, hear and taste, be it wild, romantic, kinky, breathless or silly. It is for those men who like to talk about sex and sensuality whilst doing it! Enjoy your own energy flow and pace at each moment, as you feel it. This tantric adventure of actively requesting and responding to intimate requests, allows you to explore your eroticism and allows you to control your own natural path to the heights of your orgasm.
In this game, it is good to take risks and ask for things you would really like to experience at this moment. It might be something you have never thought about doing before! It might be something you have wanted to do but have never got around to. It might be something you always enjoy. Go with what you really, really want at that moment. I dare you! In doing so, you are exposing yourself and your true wishes. You are opening up to your honesty and feel how you respond to your desires.
You can be the only one giving out the requests, dares, instructions and desires, or you can take turns with Steve in making requests of each other. Would you get turned on by following Steve's requests and testing your boundaries with surprise twists and turns, seeing how you respond to his proposals? If you would like Steve to join in the game of asking requests, he will! When he asks you to do something, check in with yourself to see if this is something you really wish to give. If you are not happy to do the request, if you find it crosses the line of what you are prepared to give, it is fine to say ‘No’, and then try and offer an alternative. So, you could say ‘I might not be able to do that, but I could do this!’ The game, if played reciprocated in this way, allows you to explore your boundaries as a giver to Steve's requests as well as your instinctive desires.
If you prefer to wholly take control of the situation before you arrive, in a pre-planned way, you can choose Male Sexual Role Play. If you prefer Steve to take the lead during the session, please choose one of the other tantric treatments such as Shared Male Intimate Touch, Body to Body Massage, Male Sensual Erotic Massage or Tie and Tease.
Remember to be creative! Don't be afraid to use powerful language that will turn you on and excite you - like cock, dick, load, fuck, cum, mouth, lick, rim, snog. Remember to instruct actions and you may want to specify a part of the body for Steve to use and a part of the body for it to be used on, and perhaps a sensual accessory that Steve can use on you too - and you will find endless possibilities. Bring some things you might want to use, such as toys, syrup, candles, football socks, stockings, jocks, leather, rope and boots.
Here are some examples of how the game might be played. The game can be slow and involve just one or a small number of requests that take up the whole session (eg 'I want to lie on the bed in the dark and let you do whatever you want anonymously for 30 minutes'), or it can have many requests that take a short amount of time to complete (eg 'Kiss my cock, fuck my mouth, get on all fours, rub your cock over my crack, bite my nipples, lick my pits, suck my toes'). Make it seductive, with caressing, biting, hugging, and kissing, make it controlling and masterly with demands such as taste my arse, put those jocks on, sit on my face, cum over my arse, lick and teabag my balls while I wank over your chest. We can also choose to have a playful, humourous game, or make it wild and raunchy....bend me over and spank my arse with a paddle and plough my hole.
The fun and excitement from the game are provided by you, and if you like to play your requests and responses both ways, both you and Steve provide the session's direction. You should be as open as possible to get the most out of this game. Explore your eroticism!
We can check in afterwards with how you felt and what you learned about yourself, how we related to each other, what was surprising, whether there was something you wanted but didn’t dare ask for, how was it saying Yes or No, how did it feel receiving and giving. This game is often one that couples should do more often to discover new things that turn them on! Try it out with Steve and see how it feels. Requests can be as short as a few moments or as long as the whole treatment.