A captivating session in Ecstatic BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism) led by Steve in a safe and clean environment in Man On The Couch's suite in Southampton. Your emotions may include pain, humiliation, subordination, helplessness and vulnerability.
Steve is in control and you surrender to his power play, sensually and consensually enjoying the submissive elements of your sexuality: tie & tease, pain & torture, master and slave/puppy role play, talking rough and dirty. BDSM includes communicating around your kinky and fetish desires, negotiating limits so you’re not taken beyond your agreed boundaries, and creating a magical play scene in which your kinkiness is explored.
When played with skill and awareness, your choice of activities and play toys will be intensely erotic and profoundly liberating due to your level of vulnerability and helplessness, which is combined with trust, intimacy and connection between Steve and yourself.
Kink and fetish activities include verbal power play, commands and submissive responses, spanking, whipping, flogging and other forms of impact play, electro-stimulation, a modern 'bed of nails' to lie on, restraining and tying, cock and ball torture, urethral dilation with sounds, vacuum pumping, ball stretching, orgasm edging and prevention, anal and mouth penetration such as spitting and fisting, watersports and mummification. Steve can use blindfolds, gags, hoods, dog collar and lead, restraints, cuffs, rope and ties, whips, canes and paddles, a cock chastity lock, anal lock, vibrators, butt plugs, nipple clamps, candle wax, rubber, leather and chain wear, boots and uniform as our play toys. Other sensual accessories are also available if you prefer, such as super-slippery lubricant nuru gel, silk and feathers.
Combine play toys and activities with the associated verbal instructions and physical behaviour from your dominant owner, and you will be taken into some amazing intimate states of consciousness as you experience your surrender.
A king size bed, massage couch, chairs and wet room provide the comfortable spaces to indulge your senses. Gloves, wet wipes, lubrication, play sheets, toilet and shower are available for hygiene.
Conscious Surrender is suitable for beginners to BDSM, kink and fetish. You are welcomed whatever your relationship status, sexual orientation or age (as long as you are over 18). I ask that you come with an open mind and a willingness to learn and discover. If you’re uncomfortable around the use of control in eroticism, this isn’t the treatment for you.