Conscious Surrender: Pain & Discipline
Be disciplined, and take the pain. Be controlled by your Master. A captivating session in Ecstatic BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism) led by Steve in a safe and clean environment in Man On The Couch's suite in Southampton. Your emotions may include pain, humiliation, subordination, helplessness and vulnerability. You have no control and you enjoy feeling the power in sex, by being powerless.
Steve is in control and you surrender to his power play, sensually and consensually enjoying the submissive elements of your sexuality: tie & tease, pain & torture, master and slave, puppy role play, talking rough and dirty. BDSM includes communicating around your kinky and fetish desires, negotiating limits so you’re not taken beyond your agreed boundaries, and creating a magical play scene in which your kinkiness is explored. Conscious Surrender can range from light play, such as foot, glove, pits and nipple fetishes, to being partially silenced by wearing a face mask or sticking tape over your mouth and using ties and restraints, through to a more severe caning, and complete mummification with pain and torture, pissing into your opened hole and fisting.
When played with skill and awareness, your choice of activities and play toys will be intensely erotic and profoundly liberating due to your level of vulnerability and helplessness, which is combined with trust, intimacy and connection between Steve and yourself.
It may be that you want me to do whatever I desire to use your body at my will, which is fine. You may be happy with any and all of the activities listed above and below. Please let me know if you have any questions, special requests or any background to your experiences and what you would particularly like or dislike during the treatment, as I am happy to tailor it to your preferences. For example, activities that you’d like to experience, and those that you feel you would definitely not like. These boundaries are best agreed before you arrive. There is also the option of further tuning, stopping, or slowing down the energy and flow of the activities during the session, e.g. by saying red, amber and green, shaking the head quickly, using names or shouting other things to indicate whether you want me to stop straight away, go more slowly, or you are happy with the activity.
The activities include verbal power play, my commands and your submissive responses, spanking, whipping, caning, flogging with paddles, and other forms of impact play, electro-stimulation, a modern 'bed of nails' to lie on, restraining and tying your body (such as hogtied and sockgagged in thermals or boots), ball-gagged, tape-gagged, cock and ball torture, urethral dilation with sounds, vacuum pumping, ball stretching, orgasm edging and prevention, anal and mouth penetration such as spitting, pissing and fisting, watersports and hard pounding penetration by me either raw or with condoms, blindfolds, gags, hoods, dog collar and lead, mummification, restraints, cuffs, rope and ties, a cock chastity lock, anal lock, stretcher, vibrators, butt plugs, nipple clamps, candle wax, rubber, leather and chain wear, boots and uniform as our play toys. I can make you lick my boots and suck my cock on your knees, I can stand on your face and back as you lie on the floor. Other sensual accessories are also available, such as super-slippery lubricant nuru gel, silk and feathers, that may take my fancy with you. I may wish to edge your cock during the treatment, and make you cum at the end, or I may wish to just satisfy myself by ejaculating over and/or inside you, or I may wish us both to cum. Let me now which of these activities you want to experience before you arrive, then we can enter our kink and fetish play scene on the day, in full knowledge of our boundaries.
Combining my play toys and activities with the associated verbal instructions and physical behaviour from me, as your dominant owner, and you will be taken into some amazing intimate states of consciousness, far away from your normal world of adult behaviour, as you experience your surrender.
A king size bed, massage couch, chairs and wet room provide the comfortable spaces to indulge your senses. Gloves, wet wipes, lubrication, play sheets, toilet and shower are available for hygiene.
Conscious Surrender is suitable for beginners to BDSM, kink and fetish. You are welcomed whatever your relationship status, sexual orientation or age (as long as you are over 18). I ask that you come with an open mind and a willingness to learn and discover. If you’re uncomfortable around the use of control, discipline, pain and domination in eroticism, this isn’t the treatment for you.